Female Circumcision, Have You Heard of It?

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Do you still remember the day that you were circumcised?

Did you feel any pain during the procedure?

Maybe you did, maybe you did not. My youngest brother told me that the healing process is more painful than the actual process itself. Of course there is anesthesia, and the nurse or doctor provided you the assurance that she or he knows what she or he is doing, and the entire process is really safe and hygienic. The doctor perhaps used his newly sterilized tools and made you sit in a clean white linen while keeping your mind adrift by giving a little chit chat.

But what if let us say, that instead of letting you sit in a squeaky clean bed, the doctor decided to have you seated in a dusty old wooden stool; and instead of scissors and knives, you saw thorns, broken pieces of glass and perhaps an old and rusty razor blade; would you still wish to continue? And just as you think the situation could never been more worse, you’re parents forced you to do it not because you’re a boy, but because you’re a girl.

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is the process of removing partially or totally the external female genitalia for cultural, religious or other non-therapeutic reasons. More often, girls undergo this procedure due to their parents’ initiative, in which self-consent of the aforementioned are deliberately disregarded. FGM is practiced widely in Africa despite the endeavors against it by the World Health Organization (WHO).

WHO estimated that a total of 100 to 140 million girls and women all over the world are currently circumcised.  In Africa alone, three million girls are put at risk of FGM every year.  FGM is generally classified into four types, in which first is what they call “Clitoridectomy” or the partial or total removal of the clitoris; second is the “Excision” or the partial or total removal of the clitoris and the labia minora with or without excision of the labia majora, or the lips that surrounds the vagina. “Infibulation” is another process wherein the vaginal opening is narrowed through the covering seal which is done by cutting and repositioning the inner and sometimes outer labia with or without the removal of the clitoris.  Finally, pricking, piercing, incising, scrapping and cauterizing the genital area is also done to women who are required to undergo FGM.

06214010FGM is a generally done as a form of following the norms of a respective society.  Such has been viewed as an imperative in order to have a girl grow to someone who the society expects to be highly favorable most especially for making the girl bankable in the marriage market.  Advocates of FGM believe that through this process, women will have the more appropriate sexual behavior, which will assure their virginity and marital fidelity.  The procedure is also believed to decrease the woman’s libido and would help her do away with sexual acts, as of course when the vaginal opening is covered or narrowed, the aforementioned will be refrained from omitting any sexual acts prior to marriage.  And finally, what could be more worse than having to open the closure of the vagina on the process of intercourse; like having to undergo the FGM process all over again.

FGM is normally associated by its advocates to ideas of purity and beauty, together with modesty and femininity; which is a very illogical and inhumane frame of thought and archaic perception towards women.

It is quite a shame that despite women are treated like men’s equal in most parts of the world, there are still a significant percentage of the society who still views them as objects. The perception that women needed to keep their hymen intact as such serves as a sole measure of their value never lost its place in the long list of fallacies that some cultures still wished to keep until present.

When some women in some parts of the West or in Asia rallied for their statutory rights, others battle for their lives and chase their dreams in vain. Perhaps women’s battle in this world would never seem to end. As long as there are dogmas, and obsolete and damaging norms, together with the rotten perceptions of highly archaic and inhumane patriarchal society, women still remains to be in danger.  The need to raise awareness of FGM as advocated by WHO must be furthered; otherwise people in other parts of the world will start and stop their disgust, anger and empathy in articles and pictures.

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23 Comments

  1. Atheist D.Choco

    yeah, i heard about this way back in high school i think…
    though it was introduced as some sick muslim thing…
    never though it was not only in the middle east…

    …creepy…

    • KSS

      This is something not often discussed, and I also never ever heard of anything like this until I was in high school as well. But I can tell you this, it is surely not of the Islam faith to mutilate the female body in this way. There may have been Muslims who have had this or some form of female circumcision done to female babies, but it is not something a respectful Muslim would do. Islam does not approve of this and therefore please don’t assume that Muslims do this to female children.

  2. nicole

    It’s not sick or creepy, though yes, it’s painful and *I* personally think it’s wrong. It’s a right of passage that women in these countries *choose.* Look past your own ethnocentricity for a bit, people….

    • abigail blumlein

      Yes it IS creepy and sick!! It’s people like you who keep this sick, twisted, unsanitary, and dangerous practice alive. what kind of idiot are you to believe that little girls as young as 6 or 7 CHOOSE to have this torture done on them? what kind of idiot are you to not believe it is sick?? and what about WHY it’s done? it’s supposedly to keep women from being sexually active before they are married or some garbage like that…why don’t these backwards jungle people teach their SONS to respect women and not engage in sexual activity until after marriage???

    • Abigail Blumlein

      Nicole, you are a sick twisted individual! what makes you think any 6 or 7 year old sweet innocent little girl would CHOOSE to have this done? instead of mutilating a woman’s body which was created by GOD, why don’t these idiot backwards jungle people teach their sons to NOT have sex until they are married?

  3. Allison

    It doesn’t matter what your ethnicity is; from a medical stand-point, FGM is painful, dangerous, and barbaric. Do you think that little girl I that picture had ANY say in what was happening to her? WOMEN need to stand up to this practice- its not a right of passage- its a way to subjugate women.

  4. Cheri

    I question many beliefs….and I respect many beliefs…and it always ends with me being thankful to be born in America. No matter what anyone says about my country, I am still grateful to be in what many other countries see as “heaven”.

  5. Fern

    i have recently been reading up on F.G.M and i am disgusted.
    i do not care what bullshit reason that those monsters give. mutilating a females genitals is barbaric. it is perfectly natural to have everything we do down there our viginas are the way they look fro a reason and do NOT need changing for men or for god.
    woman need to stand up for this it might not be a social issue in western countries yet millions of girls every year vialated.
    i feel sick to my bones when i say the pictures of the precedures and i am disgusted with humanity for thinking that this is right……

  6. Ida

    Sunat aja lah biyar memek kalian bagus , rapi, dan enak dientot…!!!!!1

  7. Vemy

    Mmmm…like it.

  8. Mossman

    Nicole, you are an idiot. Did you read none of the above article?

  9. Kiah Mahy

    Some of you are thinking that a most woman elect to have it done. In reality most woman don’t want it but are forced by the older males to get it done to them so that the family can basically make more money from them when the woman get married.

  10. Claire

    Wow nicole what a sick little thing you are!!!!
    Yes it is SICK it’s very sick and makes me want to cry the fact that these young girls have to be violated to this extreme and even more sick for them to be made to feel that they were not OK as they were. Would you not consider RAPE sick as I see this to be much worse!? Men need to stop!!!!!!! Humanity isn’t the problem MEN are!!! Always hiding behind their gods to justify every sick thing they come up with…… funny thing is that women are surely closer to the divine considering there is very little account of us EVER doing anything remotely as EVIL as this. It’s about time we fought back!!!!

  11. ckey

    that so unbelievable

  12. Stesha

    I had a very similar response to “FGM” when I first heard about it too. I was angry for the girls and I know I would never want that done to me or allow it to be done to my daughter…

    But in learning about the history of female genital cutting, one learns that it is almost always WOMEN who perform these procedures on their own daughters or on the daughters of their friends. It is often viewed as a CELEBRATORY right of passage and as being good for one’s health (hold your judgments just a moment…).

    There have been movements in these cultures to stop this practice, and I hope that the women who are opposed to FGC are able to convince those who are for it that it is not a healthy practice and that it is not necessary for a girl to become a woman (as many firmly believe it is). It is true that an aspect of this practice is that women who have not been cut are viewed as less marriageable, but if mothers believed that FGC were bad and they banded together, they would be able to make FGC end. The issue is that they don’t think of it as “evil”. Even though they have had it done to themselves, they cut their own daughters.

    And while I think about this subject that I view as an atrocity, I realize that I am sitting here in America with a culture that tells our little girls that they should play with barbies and their favorite former child star just went to rehab and every girl I knew in high school had an eating disorder and our little boys that they’re only men if they don’t cry.

    I’m just trying to throw in a bit of perspective. Who are we to accuse these women who are continuing a tradition (albeit a painful one) of barbarity?

    Saying that other cultures are evil will get you absolutely nowhere and sounds a little naive.
    I would recommend that you educate yourself with a source that’s a little more neutral and presents facts and history if you want to actually form your own opinion about other peoples’ cultures and if you truly care about this subject. I recommend a passage from Dembour’s “Following the Movement of a Pendulum”, though there is a world of other sources.

  13. Hope

    I first learned about FGM a few weeks ago for a project that I am doing for my 7th grade social studies class..
    FGM is barbaric. No numbing for the poor young girls… No clean and healthy environment to perform this procedure. Not to mention, the girls don’t even get a say in this.
    We need to do something!

  14. Claire

    Irrelevant of whether it is the men actually doing the procedure or not it has been enforced by men. There is no way a woman would ever come up with this. It is done to control women so they do not stray from their man due to the fact that after the procedure it is 99% guaranteed that they will never enjoy sex again even if it is just from a physiological standing.

    I beg of you all, if you really want to help please donate.
    I found this charity http://www.waris-dirie-foundation.com/ which has been set up by a lady who has come from a social system where this still goes on, you can read her story on the site.
    Thank you

  15. Brian

    I am a man, and just trying to empathize with the women who have this done to them nearly makes me cry. Women are clearly being manipulated from childhood by these horrible beings I wouldn’t even call human. FGM needs to be abolished world wide. I don’t believe in god, but I still think men and women both should be able to enjoy sex.

    • Ian

      Hear hear my friend, my sentiments entirely, if these so called perfect muslim ragheads want to mutilate their kids, fine by me, probably save a lot of two of coffee and one of cream kids being born, what say you,

  16. John

    well,talking about the rights of a little girl. what about the rights of a little boy being cut without his approval. now you will say that it is not the same,well, it is the same. the most sensitive part of the penis is removed and nobody cares about all those boys. it is all about the women rights. most of the men in USA are circumcised and everyone thinks that it is OK, well, it is not!!! if a boy can be cut without his permission why not a girl being cut

  17. Kamchaska

    no matter who does it and for what sake. it does not matter either if other places/cultures have other practises of whatever nature equally/more/less painful/disgusting/unacceptable.
    What matters is it is an extemely painful procedure that is unnecessary from a medical point of view. If anything, it brings harm and suffering to an already suffering world. Nobody needs any more of it and nothing can justify it.
    I choose not to even mention the psychological impact/trauma on individuals and within society/family.

  18. Lance

    Inflicting pain and torture to children or adults is just plain wrong. Cultual, traditional or otherwise. There is absolutly NO reason for this at all. Male or female.
    Come on people, lets move into the 21st century with a little more respect for each other.
    A good place to start is to move military funds into humane funds. WOW, wouldn’t that solve a few problems.

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